Motivation, Goals and a Place to Start

    Hello and Welcome to my very first Blog. Over time I hope to cover many topics. There are some tings that have greatly improved my life and continue to. I hope the information will both motivate and comfort you on your journey whatever it may be. I know having a wake up call can be useful I sure as heck need them frequently. Let this be a safe place for you to begin exploring. Find a topic that interests you and look it up! I will have various discussions about anything and everything to do with my blog in my discord server. If you need motivation or help I'm sure as a community we can help each other!

    First off my name is Kayla, Im a homemaker/stay at home mom/bill keeper/play friend... so on, so fourth. I have three little kids 1yr,2yrs and 6yrs old. I am also a Photographer and had the pleasure of my very first wedding this past 2022. I am located in the lovely Upstate, New York, where I was born and raised.

    A couple years go my entire life changed. Every belief I had changed. I went from calling myself a Christian as I had been raised, to now being a pagan. I also began practicing witch craft and everything to do with it. My all time favorite youtuber SkyLife is where it all began, leading to my findings of The Green Witch and many others. Not only did I have an awakening, but my view on politics changed. I mean everything i thought was true was not as true as I once thought. I began doing research and what I learned I felt I had known in my gut long ago. It is also important to note that in all I learn, I try my very best to find the answers that can be backed up by actual facts. Misinformation is so common now, its important to get information that has been backed up by real studies and experiments. Now not everything can be backed by science and its this lovely topic called Spi. Here is where I will begin recommending books, Real Magic by, Dean Radin, PHD, is a great place to start for those interested in this topic. 

    Needless to say things started changing and it hasn't stopped. In no way was or is it easy. I have a long way to go, but now that I started, I feel unstoppable. I know that my fate is not left up to some unstoppable force but much like my favorite Neuroscientist,

 Dr. Joe Dispenza says "Same thoughts always lead to the same choices, same choices lead to the same behavior and the same behaviors lead to the same experiences and the same experiences produce the same emotions and these emotions drive the very same thoughts." If you enjoyed this quote and are now interested please do yourself a favor and follow through with reading Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself by Joe Dispenza. After you have read this book go find his meditation.

LIFE. CHANGING.

    As I said before, I have done many different things and attempted many things. What I am sharing are the things that have truly given me the tools to achieving anything and everything I want to in this life. I could get into the "why's" but I'll then simply direct you to INTP/T personality witch could also align with Aries Sun, Cancer Moon and Libra rising. Though these things are trivial and anyone with any range of personality can learn the same way or entirely different. Hopefully this just shows you that no matter what you do these tools have worked for others and myself. Same goes for your past. If you go and read the books I have recommended you will learn it does not matter where you are coming from. All that matters is how you move forward. Married, single, single mom, single dad, it's "complicated" and everything in between. You have control. It is your life. You are as abundant as you want to be. To those coasting through life and simply reacting to the things happening to you and waiting for the next thing, you chose to stop it, just as you chose to continue letting life happen to you. Im not saying that there are uncontrollable events but, its true what they say, you CAN control how you react to it. For instance if you get sick you chose whether to suffer or take some medicine or increase your vitamin C to help fight it. You could also take this a step further in having preventative measures in place to prevent illness in the first place. Same goes for finances and just about everything in life. Now we can move forward to abundance.

    When I say abundant I am speaking in terms of the feeling of abundance. Not your financial situation. Don't get me wrong money can make you feel abundant but, the amount never really matters unless you feel abundant. To be abundant is taking it further than accepting where you are and being happy with it. Abundance is feeling more than satisfied with your life. When you are living your best and fullest life. Imagine waking up with a smile on your face starting your day by doing what you only dreamed was possible. It starts with where you are right now.

    Let me tell you it is possible. It is possible to feel just as abundant now in your current situation as you imagine it would feel in your ideal scenario. Again I direct you to Dr. Joe Dispenza or any self improvement that works for you. The most important thing you can realize right now from this is that you can do what you want. You are not stuck. Don't like your job? Quit. Not happy with your family? (unpopular opinion) Leave. I do however encourage you to work things out but really what's the point if you have tried and end up in the same cycle you have been in for months or years for that matter. It would be difficult and emotional to do this yes but the end game is what you are looking at here. I'll continue on with questions like; Do you love where you live? Move. Work for it starting today actively by budgeting or applying for a second or third job (I did as a single mother). Do whatever it will take to do it. Start this moment with the mental shift. Don't like your looks? Start fixing it now. Sign up at a GYM. Get a coach.

    Has your goal been to drink water? Go drink water right now. Did you drink the entire cup? Yes. Go get another. Better yet go splurge on a new water bottle that has the drinking times written on the sides and have a competition with yourself. Even if you sat down and did nothing but keep up with drinking your water, you still accomplished a goal. You will start to get excited and next thing you know you are looking up how to apply for that LLC and boom you do that like its nothing. It is really that simple.

    Information is vital for world change and I hope I've now began contributing to this new world full of love and kindness.

    If you made it to the end thank you and I hope a change started in you today!

Photos By: Kayla Book